There is such kindness in the world..

We had such a beautiful party today. The weather held out, there were tons of people, good food and lots of kids. More than anything we were overwhelmed with the kindness of people.

We couldn't have visualized it any better. Kids were playing, and being kids. Connor was happy, and felt normal for the day. He got so many nice cards, and gifts, and well wishes.

After the party he said, "Mom, that was a great party, it was so nice to see everyone." And it was.

I wanted to take a few minutes to answer some of the questions we have been asked a lot, and I haven't posted:

1. How did you know Connor had a tumor? Connor had been extra clumsy, seeming to fall over his own feet. This wasn't too unusual, being a 6 year old. After his Soccer game, he was at home and grabbed his head and was crying that it hurt. This was unusual so we took him to the ER. The CT scan revealed the Tumor. The doctor's said we had caught it early, probably within a week.

2. When will he start Treatment and how long will it last ? Connor starts Radiation & Chemo on the 19th. The radiation will be 5 days a week for 6 weeks, and the Chemo will be once week for 44 weeks.

3. Will he go to school during this time? If he's up to it yes. We would love him to go to school even if it's just for socialization. The treatment could make him tired. His teacher will be tutoring him which is so nice.

4. Has he had any complications from the surgery ? Connor is still working on regaining his balance, and he has some weakness in his left arm. Each day he makes more strides. He will be moving from a wheel chair to a walker. Today he walked from his room to he living room, just using the walls for support. We will also be taking him to an opthamologist to strengthen his eyes.

5. What can we get Connor and You guys? We will be starting Connor a hat Collection. So if there is a special hat that would remind him of you it would be great. He also loves getting cards and letters. We also love the cards, and emails (and special comments on this blog). Just knowing we are in your thoughts has been the best medicine for us. For those of you who want to send a gift, Gas Cards would be much appreciated.

6. What can I do for you? This has been such a hard question. Not because we don't need the help, but because we just don't know yet. We are just starting this journey and I'm sure things will come up. Keeping in contact is on the top of our list. Know that we appreciate your offers even if we haven't called on you YET! Keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

The Best thing about today?: The party of course. The people, The kind words, The Compassion.
What made me smile extra big?: Seeing all my little girls that I watch. I love them so much, and will miss them so much.
What made me proud?: Connor breaking his Tae Kwon Do Board. He was so proud.

I want to hear from you! What was the best part of your day?

I wanted to thank everyone for coming today. Nikki and Julie thanks or all the extra help (and the PT for Connor !).

Kindness:

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
-Leo Buscaglia